Posted by: rivettingkatetaylor | December 9, 2008

Road rage with a water pistol

I’m going to let Joe Bennett do some of the talking today.  I found this little column very amusing. I must admit to reading it before I saw who wrote it – I’m not normally a fan.

http://www.stuff.co.nz/4788429a1861.html

and it’s raining again in Hawke’s Bay – hurray! We’re up to about 40mm in the past week now which should stave off the threatening drought until at least the New Year. By that time I’ll be packing my bags for the biennial trip to see the fandamily in the South Island.

In the meantime, I’m getting lazy as Christmas draws near. With most of my Christmas shopping done, I just want to stay home and pretend to ignore my looming deadlines. And I especially want it to keep raining this afternoon so I don’t have to take tennis coaching.  Before you ask, no, I’m not that good a tennis player. But I am one of the two parents who volunteered to help while their children were at tennis. Stupid girl!  I can handle the ones who are the same age as my kids (they’re too scared to talk back – my kids have obviously already told them I don”t put up with any crap).

It’s the testosterone-laden teens who are way ready for high school that are beyond me.

I’m giving Lachlan away when he turns 13.

Posted by: rivettingkatetaylor | November 30, 2008

Seven random facts about me

Tag – I’m it. I’m not tagging anyone back – I just wanted to waste valuable work time figuring out seven random facts about myself that wouldn’t put you to sleep.

My real name is Kathryn and despite telling people to call my husband by his given name (Thomas, not Tom) and my son by his given name (Lachlan not Lachie) – I will forever be known as Kate. Aside from the odd pet name Katie from family members,  my name change took place when I went to stay with my mother’s cousin, named Kathryn, who everyone but me called Kate. So this little 11-year-old madam went home and refused to answer to Kathryn (even armed with threat of detention from my teachers). Ever since, I have been known as Kate (or worse – call me anything you like, except late for breakfast as my father used to say)

The name on my passport and the tax man’s hit list, Kate Taylor, is shared with several US singers, a furniture maker, a yoga instructor, some doctors, quite a few journalists and authors, an ad rep, cartoonist, a child health researcher and a famous UK sex columnist (thanks Google – and that was only results 1-60 from almost a million). Mmmm. is it any wonder I have retured to my maiden name and created Kate Rivett-Taylor (hence the rivettingkatetaylor blog).  There are 24,000 hits for googling Kate Rivett but only 12 on Kate Rivett-Taylor and they’re all me!!! As far as I know, I am the only Kate Rivett-Taylor in the world.

I love my Mum.

My favourite smell is freshly baled hay. After nodding with agreement recently when a friend put just-mowed grass in that category, I was chucked back in time yesterday as I caught a whiff of dry hay. Talk about a whizz back to your childhood. Of course hay means summer which means swimming, tennis, bare feet, reading books in the sun, chilly pinot gris, divebombing off the wharf at Kinloch – Lake Wakatipu, sand and surf at Gisborne, picnics, Dagwood sandwiches… all my favourite things (none of which relate to having to stack the said hay bales for my parents, which I managed to get out of at every possible opportunity – sorry about that!)

I once worked as a weighbridge operator for a grain trader near Hull, England. Beats writing. Beats thinking about random facts about myself! Two to go.

I truly believe the time we spend with our children before they go to school sets them up for the people they will be (and I was lucky enough to work from home so they never had to go to full time child care). My two are laid back, happy children who enjoy each other’s company, can amuse themselves no matter what the situation, are well behaved in public and who still unashamedly kiss me goodbye when the school bus is waiting to pick them up. Long may it last!

I love doing things for other people – my church newsletter, PTA fundraising – usually cooking on a BBQ, helping the teachers at school, organising our community Christmas party at the local hall, doing baking for people who have had a death in the family or the arrival of a new baby, joining the tennis committee and being president of my netball club…. that’s what living in rural NZ is all about.

See seven random facts about my rural journo friend Ele on http://homepaddock.wordpress.com/2008/11/28/tagged-twice/

She tagged me!

Posted by: rivettingkatetaylor | November 30, 2008

Dagwood

Mother-in-law called it a Dagwood – to me it’s a sign-of-summer sandwich… too much stuff stuffed between two slices of fresh bread.

You can’t choose which bits to leave out so you shove it all in (tomato, ham or chicken, cheese, avocado, egg, lettuce and homemade salad dressing – as opposed to mayonnaise which just isn’t the same) and then try to bite it in one go. Grandad used to wait until we had managed to get our lips together and then would ask us to say “boo”. Of course we couldn’t and Mum would tell us off for the bits of food sprayed over the table from the resulting giggles.

Kinloch was the #1 place for these sandwiches. After a day of swimming in Lake Wakatipu (although North Island-born hubby doesn’t believe it has ever been warm enough in Otago to swim) or walking through native beech forest in places like the Routeburn or Greenstone, we would retire to the old crib (that’s a bach or holiday home for you North Islanders) and proceed to build a mammoth jaw-breaking “Dagwood” sandwich. And in hindsight, having all those things in a camping spot in the middle of nowhere for such a long time must have taken #1 planning (thanks Mum).

Kinloch is the destination of choice for our summer holidays this year. Kinloch is a little haven (haven: remote place too small to be called a town or village boasting only half a dozen cribs, two permanent residences and a lodge) nestled at the northern end of Lake Wakatipu. It’s called the head of the lake with Kingston at the foot and Queenstown at the knees.

it is actually shaped like a lightning bolt so why head, foot and knees? Lake Wakatipu is a sleeping giant. Noone believes Mum when she tells them (she grew up there following the footsteps of her father and grandfather) that the lake rises and falls like its breathing (you can measure this by putting your beers at the edge of the lake and go back half an hour later to see the water level – it does go up and down!)

Piece of useless info: 15,000 years ago during the last ice age, a huge glacier moving from the north west carved out what is now Lake Wakatipu. The lake is relatively thin, but the mountains run straight into the lake, forming a deep canyon, 399m at its deepest point. Lake Wakatipu is the second largest lake in the Southern Lakes District, covering 290 square km. At its widest point Lake Wakatipu is five kilometres wide and the total length is 84km.

Maori legends state that the giant Matau was burnt to death in his sleep after he abducted a chief’s daughter, burning a massive hole in the ground and melting the ice and snow of the surrounding mountains, forming the lake. The lake is a large “S” shape, like a giant, curled up and sleeping on its side. Matau’s head rested at Glenorchy, at the north of the lake (to which we Kinlochers all say is rubbish because Kinloch is the head of the lake) and his feet south in Kingston. Queenstown sits on Matau’s knee.

One of Wakatipu’s mysteries is the rise and fall of the lake by about 12cm (5″) every five minutes. Legend states that a Giant’s heart is impossible to destroy, and causes this rise and fall, while science says it is due to fluctuating atmospheric pressures. But across the lake from the town below Cecil Peak is a little island visible only from up close, from above, or from a different angle. Some say Hidden Island is the still beating heart of the Giant Matua…

Thanks to http://www.queenstown.nz.com/lake-wakatipu.aspx

And for the record, thanks to Google and Wikipedia, a Dagwood sandwich is a thick, multi-layered sandwich made up of a wide variety of meats, cheeses and condiments. It was named after Dagwood Bumstead, a character in the comic strip Blondie, who frequently makes enormous sandwiches.

Being scared of following in the alleged-plagarist footsteps of a certain NZ journalist recently, I am now admitting to not really being as knowledgeable as I appear. Google and Wikipedia are on my most-used pages list!

Posted by: rivettingkatetaylor | November 25, 2008

video games… not

Some people are worried about the violence in the video games their children are playing. My advice: chuck out the play station.

Some people are worried about their children being text bullied. My advice: don’t buy them a cellphone.

Actually don’t chuck out the play station. Sell it to buy some games that will help turn your children into normal human beings and not RSI-riddled TV-eyed unsociable little people (I was going to say monsters but it sounds too harsh).

Of course my children are perfect. Not. But I have and will continue to hold to some rules in my house about what they are and are not allowed to do. Video games/playstation is one of them.

They do love to watch TV and play games on the computer, but it is programmes or games that I approve (like Words Rock or Braintastic) which they still think are fun and don’t click on to the fact they are educational. Mini golf and games similar to the old Pac Man-type scenario are also popular. But this is limited and not allowed on school days except as a reward for something.

My children play outside after school. They bounce on the trampoline, they run around in the paddock with their lambs, they climb trees, play in the woodshed, ride their bikes, build train tracks etc. They have tennis and swimming and have friends over to play. Violent video games are just not necessary, let alone wanted. They don’t need video games.

The choice is ours. How many times have you been forwarded that email about growing up in the 80s. How free we were. How lucky we were. If we are sick of the effect of today’s environment on our children, do something about it.

Here’s a thought. Give up your high powered, high paid job in the city and move to a “lesser” job in the country. With the money left over from transferring from an over-valued city house to a gorgeous cottage in the country you can deck your kids out in whatever extra toys they need to amuse themselves after school (and they might even learn to talk to each other because they won’t be able to get cellphone reception).

With the time you save not sitting on the motorway, you might even get to play with them yourself.

Buy monopoly, buy scrabble. Buy a portable volleyball net. Buy a trampoline (without the safety net around it for goodness sake). Murphy’s law – every time I boast about our $20 trampoline purchase I just know one of them is going to fall off and break something.

And break they might. But they will learn the boundaries of when and where to do somersaults won’t they. A friend of mine was paranoid about her kids hurting themselves on the trampoline and then her daughter broke her leg falling out the back door of their home.

It doesn’t have to be buy, buy, buy either. So many things in New Zealand are free. Go to the beach. Go to the river. Walk a track (an hour, a day, overnight). Go to the park. Go to a playground (and yes, mums and dads, you too can go down the slide – just get off your grown-up bandwagon and have some good old-fashioned fun). Go for a picnic. Make pikelets. Draw pictures on the concrete with chalk. Fly a kite. Walk around the top of your fence following your kids (that’s hard and I hate it).

Sit down and relax and spend time with your children (and I don’t mean a two-person game on the playstation).

Here’s a saying (and I have no idea where it came from): while we teach our children about life, they teach us what life is all about.

So live.

Posted by: rivettingkatetaylor | November 24, 2008

Elephant Hill

Every now and then a job comes along that makes you forget about all the dull ones.

Elephant Hill is a new winery estate in Te Awanga, Hawke’s Bay. German owners but making wine from its own vineyard and other NZ vineyards. As part of an ad feature for the Dominion Post, (publishing Wednes 26) an invitation was issued to have lunch with the marketing person, the managing director and the winemaker.

Best lunch ever. Not only was the food great, but the rose and the viognier (still can’t pronounce it properly though – vee oh nay?) taste slightly differently when the glass across the table is held by the man who made it.

The syrah has since been on my tasting list (winemaker’s fave) and is divine (just won an award at the Sydney International Wine Awards too).

It was a very elegant setting, even posh, but not pretentious (which would throw me out of my comfort zone completely). With the risk of sounding like a travel brochure, actually, totally sounding like a travel brochure, Elephant Hill has an idyllic setting amidst its own vines with the Pacific Ocean framed by the iconic Cape Kidnappers in the distance….. I hasten to add that it certainly makes a difference when it’s all free. My ethics would have been called completely into question had it been awful. But it wasn’t. So they weren’t.

Thomas and I went to the official opening yesterday and had a ball. As well as its own restaurant on the go, there was a range of locally produced items like Rush Munroes icecream, Silky Oak chocolates and the wood-fired pizza man (too many wines to remember the name). We were thrilled to see him because he was catering a 40th we were at the night before (again, my favourite adjective today appears to be “divine”).

We caught up with a few old friends (boast – including a radio DJ, mayor, an MP and our son’s teacher) and met some new faces (being introduced to Kim Willoughby and hubby Ian Morris (The Dudes) was cool).

And the 40th the night before was awesome too – one of our antenatal/coffee group dads. Great playlist of 80s songs, great venue (I wish I had the interior decorating skills and classy event management gusto of my friend Jo) and lots of great people.

To those who say 40 is the new 30, bring it on. Oh, to be 21 again with all the life experience of a 36 year old. But that’s far too deep for a Monday afternoon when I should be trying to finish some profiles for another client nowhere near as exciting as a winery before my children get off the school bus (come up for air after that sentence).

Well, never mind what happens in the meantime, I want a big party for my 40th and I’m going to drink the bottle of 2007 Elephant Hill Reserve Syrah I have just “cellared” in the back of my wardrobe.

Cheers.

Posted by: rivettingkatetaylor | November 20, 2008

It’s just not cricket.

What a load of bollocks. Political correctness drives me nuts. Oh, am I referring to a man’s private parts? someone could be offended by that. Bonkers then. Whoops. Mental health officials won’t like the connotations of that one.

It’s all white here.

The Dunedin slogan about wearing cricket whites – a white out – does any pakeha (sorry, person of European descent) get offended whenever the All Blacks have a black out? Should the All Blacks name be changed to “All Colours Because We Are A Pathetic Politically Correct Nation That Doesn’t Like Standing On Anyone’s Toes”?

The Otago cricket campaign has been dubbed a ‘racist slur’ by some people because that is how it would be seen by the West Indies team members (who I assume are mostly black – and does that also assume there are no brown faces in the Black Caps like Ross Taylor or Jeetan Patel to name two high-profile players off the top of my head).

Racist or not (I pick not) at the very least it has given cricket some publicity. Hands up if you knew before this story hit the news headlines that the West Indies will play the Black Caps in Dunedin from December 11 to 15.

A press.co.nz poll showed opposition to the Dunedin slogan. Last night, 18.2 per cent of the 615 votes cast thought it was appropriate, 31% said it was not, and 50.7% opted for the answer “Has someone lost their mind?”

Posted by: rivettingkatetaylor | November 15, 2008

Sarah Ulmer – what a star

Central Hawke’s Bay cyclist and Olympic bronze medallist Wesley Gough won the local sports awards last night – but the limelight was stolen by two-time gold medallist Sarah Ulmer.

Sarah was a relaxed and very enjoyable guest speaker – although she could have been upstaged by the goosebumps on everyone’s arms after watching her gold medal-winning performances on the big screen.

She was informal, chatty and honest and not in the least bit arrogant and over polished (or unpolished actually). Sarah also seemed to thrive in the ‘sports cafe’ type setting that has become the norm at the CHB sports awards.

Sarah Ulmer flanked by MCs Ian Sharp and Simon Law from Central FM

Sarah Ulmer flanked by MCs Ian Sharp and Simon Law from Central FM

Sarah complained of being 10kg heavier now that when she was competing – she better watch out – four of the last guest speakers at these awards – our own Norm Hewitt, Queen B and ironman Cory Hutchings – have gone on to strut their stuff in Dancing with the Stars!

One message that was easily taken home was her answer to a question from the local swimming coach calling for three words she would use to describe the path to becoming a champion – they were passion, mongrel (for want of her trying to find a more appropriate description) and risk – at some point you have to put everything on the line for that ultimate result.

There were six of us at the dinner representing the Takapau Phoenix netball team (and our club) as we were nominated in the team and club categories. But proud as we were of our efforts on the local scene, we were amazed and intensely proud of the effort, skill and passion being shown by the teenagers of this provincial area (okay, most of them put us oldies well and truly to shame!)

So many NZ representatives in everything from regular sports like netball, rugby, cricket, swimming and cycling through to trampolining (that group of youngsters won the teams event), highland dancing and orienteering.

So many Central Hawke’s Bay College pupils doing so many fantastic things on the national and international sporting stage – especially alpine ski racer Piera Hudson and NZ agegroup rugby player Dominic Bird – winners of the young male and female sportperson awards (whatever happened to sportsman and sportswoman?)

Our club category was won by the Waipawa Bowling Club (yes, we were beaten at both ends of the age spectrum) which, with just 70 members, raised $260,000 for a new lawn (is that what it’s called?!)

A wonderful night was had by all, thank you Sport Hawke’s Bay.

It was the end of a great day actually. Having spent the morning doing mundane housework tasks, Thomas went off to golf and the children and I went to the CHB Show. We started with a picnic under the trees, prepared by Sarah, followed by a relaxed but hot wander around the show. Then I surprised them with chocolate and strawberries under the trees again and then we went swimming in the crystal clear waters of the Tukituki.

Sarah and Lachlan cool off in the Tukituki River

Sarah and Lachlan cool off in the Tukituki River

Posted by: rivettingkatetaylor | November 12, 2008

post election blues

The only thing blue about this post election time is that NATIONAL WON!!!!

National winning the election was great news – not because it was time for change, but because some of us have tried to vote them in for the past three elections.

Helen Clark has been Prime Minister for longer than my children have been alive.

There is one sad point.  One of my good friends has worked in the Beehive for the past few years and won’t know whether she’s Arthur or Martha for a while.  There haven’t been any phone calls between us for a few days. Partly because a major gloat would be on the cards but also because I’m not sure what to say.

Right that’s nuts. I’m off to phone her. Au revoir!

Posted by: rivettingkatetaylor | November 4, 2008

We’re so popular

Why do weekends go from being empty to having too many things to go to?

We were looking forward to a couple of quiet weekends after a few busy weeks. But then hubby came home with an invitation to a 40th that we both were delighted to accept and a babysitter was duly organised.

Then something in the deep recesses of my mind reminded me we already had a family Guy Fawkes invitation to a barbecue on Friday night. What to do?

The first invitation accepted is always the rule of thumb. But it was accepted by one half of us!

Maybe we’ll try to do both. Thomas can go one way and I’ll go the other. We’ll sit on the couch together on Saturday night.

One thing we won’t be doing is watching the election results come in. The dribble and nonsense that has come out of the mouths of the people who supposedly run our country in the past few weeks has been enough to drive anyone crazy.  I haven’t missed the six o’clock news so many times since my OE.

And on tonight’s bulletin….. click. Thank goodness for Just Shoot Me and Friends on TV2.

At least on news websites you make your own choices about which stories you read.

Having said all that, we will be voting on Saturday. It is time for change and I am so tired of Helen’s lot telling me how to live my life.  I just hope National gets enough votes to not have to bow down to the intricacies of the minorities (don’t you love MMP).

And bye bye Winston.

There were three options of an opinion poll on the stuff.co.nz website – made up your mind who you will vote for, haven’t made up your mind or not voting.  Of the 5000-ish people who had voted in the poll at that stage that 1500 were not going to be voting! Astonishing.

Now the television may get turned off in our house when the news comes on, but we know what the issues are and where the parties stand on them.  How apathetic to sit by and watch an election take place without having your say.

NZ is fortunate to have such a wonderful democracy. Imagine if we didn’t have a choice.

Posted by: rivettingkatetaylor | November 1, 2008

Jingle Bells and other ringing noises

A newsreader caught my attention this week with a headline about the bleak Christmas ahead for many families.

But the story was about the price of imported toys and items with the dropping dollar. It made me mad. This situation is one of the very reasons my children are not allowed to go “trick or treating” at Halloween (besides the fact we live in the middle of the country). It is commercialisation at its best.

Christmas is about spending time with family and friends, not to mention celebrating the birth of Jesus – remember, hence the name Christ – mas.

Christmas is about getting together and eating too much, not about getting heaps of things that will either break before the day is out or that you will never use.  It’s about spending some time about what a person might like and/or appreciate, not about how much or how little you spend.

In the past couple of years, we’ve looked for things that can be “used, done, read or eaten” on Christmas Day. Santa has also followed my request for games and toys that will keep the kids amused on Dec 25. And 26. And 27. And through January. Hopefully.

Enought about Christmas. I have already seen decorations and other festive items for sale in the Warehouse. I will scream if they start playing Jingle Bells on the radio before the start of December (three weeks is bad enough). Don’t get me started on the Hot Cross Buns at Pak’n Save last week!

Our school PTA has its big fundraiser tonight – a Quiz and Auction with more than $4000 worth of donated items to sell or giveaway. Unfortunately we have ended up clashing with about three 40ths and a couple of 60ths but with any luck, the 13 teams of six that we have registered will open their cheque books and go home relieved of a few hundred dollars!

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